I tried legal recourse on certain things and to no avail....
After all, she is a parental figure in their lives as well, even if her role is smaller than yours and your ex.
Still, this is more of your ex's fault than his wife.
You could have someone who could care less which my 2 kids have and not even bother with them...
The mom, step dad, and dad all attend parent teacher conferences, parent meetings, doctors had some major surgeries last year....
Of course I hate that.
Fortunately, I took him to court over multiple issues surrounding this situation.
The only things I'd have the complaint about would be the doctor's visits and the being disrespectful to you.
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